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The art and science of love; a research based approach to strengthening relationships
The art and science of love; a research based approach to strengthening relationships
The art and science of love; a research based approach to strengthening relationships
The art and science of love; a research based approach to strengthening relationships
The art and science of love; a research based approach to strengthening relationships

Our Approach

The Gottman method focuses on communication, physiology, and emotion to help couples look at improving how they manage conflict, build friendship/intimacy and experience shared meaning over time. Using a research based approach to couples counseling Joan Porter MFT is a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist and Gottman Referral Network Approved Member who also uses Emotion Focused Therapy and the Developmental Model. She has experience working as a Rover Therapist at the Art & Science of Love Workshops facilitated by Doctors John and Julie Gottman attended regularly by hundreds of couples. Joan is a warm, engaging, and dynamic counselor whose personable style and passion for the Gottman method consistently offers couples inspiration and hope in the true Gottman spirit: “we can do this”!

Comprehensive Couples Assessments
Live Video Sessions Offered Internationally For Long-Distance Treatment

“We are so happy we reached out for help…After thinking our marriage was over, things turned around completely. We are stronger than ever and for the first time I believe change is possible. Now I think we have another 50 years ahead of us!”
“Dr. Porter managed our counseling sessions very skillfully; even when we were in crisis. We felt totally safe to open up and be ourselves. When I attended a counseling session I knew the deep emotional work would be done and I looked forward to it. I think this therapy saved our marriage especially after past failed attempts at counseling with other therapists.”
“Joan was instrumental in reviving our marriage of 25 years. I recommend her as she helped us more than any other counselors. We flew to the area to see her specifically for marathon therapy. The Gottman method really works! I am glad we chose a research-based approach to couples counseling. It was worth the investment.”
“Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for the kindness, support, and skills! We have been practicing the methods since getting married and are both happier and more satisfied in our relationship than even when we were dating! You really have changed our lives.”